My husband's family turned away when I did not continue to let him stay at home

My husband and my husband's family reacted harshly, criticizing me, saying that I was selfish, so that the boy would suffer.

When I was a student, my husband and I lived with my husband and I for 4 years, I took one and a half million dong per month to support living expenses (his family has conditions). Because I'm a boy, I don't know how to do housework, if I can do it, I won't say anything, so I don't have to do any housework. I happily accepted because I thought he was not independent, so I should help, as if I were to serve another child.

My house has only 2 bedrooms, currently the couple and 2 children share a room; But as the children get older, they need to have their own living space to prevent them from seeing bad things. Therefore, when she graduated and found a job with a high income, I suggested that she let her stay at the boarding house for everyone to relax. I think a young 24-year-old young man who has a job and has a high income will be able to live independently.

Because of this, the relationship between husband and wife was hard, the husband's family turned to me even though they had not praised before. Am I wrong to do that, everyone?